Ida Lands (nee Milchen)

Do What You Feel Is Right

Ida Milchen in front of her father's office- El Paso, Texas (1952)

San Antonio, Texas

March 23, 2014

Kristyn Martinez

Palo Alto College

History 1302 - Spring 2014

 

INTRODUCTION
TRANSCRIPTION
ANALYSIS
TIMELINE
BIBLIOGRAPHY

 

INTRODUCTION

Ida Lands (nee Milchen) was born in
La Crosse, Wisconsin on May 24, 1942. Though she and her family moved to El Paso in the late 1940s before Ida's memory could kick in. Ida was the middle child of seven children; Carl, Frances, Joe, Ida, Leone, David, and Becky. They attended church almost regularly. Ida enjoyed church in August due to the fact that Tigua Indians would go to the church and do a rain dance. Ida attended North Loop Grade school until a new school was built named Hacienda Heights where she attended until 8th grade. After, Ida attended Ysleta High School where she played Junior/Varsity Tennis and graduated in 1960 when she was 18. After High School, Ida went on to attend college at Texas Western (today it is known as University of Texas at El Paso. Eventually Ida would marry Don Atwood in 1969 and drop out after having her first child, Laura. Though she can't recall the year she began working, she remembers becoming a secretary for an attorney sometime in the 1970's where she worked for about 18 years. Shortly after being fired, Ida ran into another job at Intel Corporation where she worked for 10 years. Her and her husband moved into a house in Albuquerque, New Mexico house in 1972, when she had her 2nd child, Don in 1977. In 1979 her last child Greg was born, and she divorced her husband of 10 years. Ida eventually would meet and marry her present day husband, Troy Lands, at a bar in 1982. Troy and Ida would live in Albuquerque, New Mexico until 2006 when they decided to move to San Antonio.

 

 

TRANSCRIPTION

What was your first job?
Working at the
ELENA Theater!

Was there a difference in wages for women than men?
…. I have no idea. I was 16 years old. Who would ask? And my job was the concession stand, there was a couple of young boys that were ushers so you know it wouldn't have been the same. I wouldn't have known anyway because I don't know if they would have gotten more or less. I should have gotten more because I worked the hardest and I'm sure they felt that way too. You know what, now that I look back today I wouldn't doubt in my mind that the men were paid more cause they haven't even gotten up to that today .

What do you think is the biggest change since you were younger?
Well I'm gonna have to say… electronics. Technology. Electronics/technology absolutely. What god-sent that was. You know I used to type for different people, on the typewriter. If you made a mistake, you would have to go back and white them out and then line them up again haha it was really bad.

Ida and sister Frances- La Crosse, Wisconsin (1946)

Does it bother you how much things have changed?
OH NO! I think it was great. You know why? Because I can see my grandchildren grow up and I don't even have to be there. They're in other towns. And I know when I was little I've seen my grandma twice. And I'm sure it was more often than that. But on the internet I could know what my grandchildren are doing every single day because they put everything in their life on there. You know?

How old were you when you got a tv?
Oh that's a good question. Hmmmm…. I would have to be somewhere between 6 and 10. We were one of the first ones to get a TV because my dad was a doctor. Had to be 7, because shortly after we moved into our new house and my sister was born.

What were your earliest childhood memories?
Oh this one is gonna be hard hahaha. Earliest childhood memories….well ok so there's so many different areas to go in. I could remember going to grade school to North loop grade school. I know all kids make fun of this when I say this, but it was one or two miles from our house. And I walked, and no it wasn't uphill. We thought nothing of it. And we didn't have any buses. That I remember doing, and here's an exciting episode. We got out of school to go home, and we cut across a vacant lot a dog came out from under a porch and bit my leg. I got blood going down the back of my leg. When I got to the filling station in Tigua to call my dad, he was in there and I said "that dog bit me!!" we had the dog pound come pick it p and had it quarantined.

Was it a big dog?
It was medium sized. I was a little girl though, so the dog was big to me. And I was wearing a skirt. We couldn't wear levis. There were no pants allowed for girls. I always asked "Why can't we wear pants?" I was a renegade even back then.

Ida Milchen- Class of 1960

What was your first car?
I think it was… it was either a '48 or '49 Plymouth. And it was green. And it was a standard. Because those days when you bought a car it was a luxury to have an automatic. See when you bought a car it was called a "strip down". I don't think there's any such thing nowadays. Strip down meant you didn't get a air conditioner… you didn't get a radio… see those aren't choices anymore. In those days you had to order them and they get added to your bill.

How much was your car?
Actually it was a used vehicle….. I bet you I paid $400 dollars. These days it would be considered a junker. But it worked fine. It ran, there was nothing wrong with it. Wish I could have saved it and sold it today.

Did you buy the car yourself or did you get help from your parents
NOOOO!!! Our parents did not help us with anything. You worked for it. You paid for it. Other kids in school had cars but it was for work. They would go to school and go to work right after. So their cars were NOT for fun. It was strictly for work.

Was it normal for kids to have a job to support their family?
A lot of kids did… a lot of kids. I was lucky, I wasn't one of them because my dad was a doctor. I was a minority, very much a minority. I didn't know when I was growing up because people were people. They were your friends, you don't think of race or religion or anything like that. Most of them were Mexican families, they had large families and they had to work to help support their family.

Did you ever see or deal with racial discrimination?
No. I didn't. my dad worked for the lower valley. The Upper valley was for the rich people, that's where all the doctors were. My dad decided to stay in the lower valley where all the poor were. My school was full of Mexicans with a few whites. I don't know if there were any Indians. I do know I went to Ruidoso where Mescalero Indians were. We would go down to the movies that were western movies. The cavalries were coming to wipe out the Indians and we never cheered because I was very much aware that 99.9% of the theater was full of Indians. So we were outnumbered and scared to get beat up haha. We were NOT going to clap. There was no discrimination though. We were in the same theater, you know?

What event has affected your life the greatest?
Alcoholism…. When the kids' father died of alcoholism, I don't think I had a drink since then. It was just alcohol poisoning… It was horrible. I remember driving down the street saying "you idiot!! You got two kids, Laura just had a baby, you had a grandchild" I would tell him that. He was very smart but not smart enough to get away from alcoholism. Anything that can alter your mind can take you, and if you want to give up your life for that… I just don't get that.

Who or what has been your life's inspiration?
You know… I'm gonna have to say my dad. He set an awfully big example for all of us. Because he was honest, he was thoughtful of other people, he believed in having pride in yourself to have a job and do it right

Is there anything else you would like to add to the interview?
You know, this is a fun little project your class is doing. I hope you learn something from it. When you look back, a lot of things have changed for the good. And if I had to do the whole thing over again I probably wouldn't change anything. Because you know, no matter what life you lead, you're gonna have your ups, your downs, your problems, and you gotta solve them. And I think Troy and I talked about it one day and we said if there was one thing we would change, we would make sure our kids went to church and know God.

Family of Ida Lands- second from left in top row (April 1982)

 

 

ANALYSIS

As I was interviewing Ida, I received answers that were somewhat surprising to me. My interviewee lived a happy-go-lucky life. Some important points made in this interview is how one person can have it made and still have life lessons taught the hard way. Her story consists of hardships related to drug and alcohol abuse by family; accepts consequences from right or wrong actions; lives for the truth. From the interview, I learned that no matter who she may come across, Ida would love to be the person to help turn someone's life around. I learned that growing up in a wealthy family does not promise a life without hardship. And I learned that my dear old sweet neighbor was not fazed by race while growing up; though she does not go into much detail due to the lack of witnessing segregation where she grew up. My topic about Herstory did not change. I planned the interview to be on civil rights, but the lack of detail moved it towards the story of her life. Ida expressed her feelings through her use of words and the hand movements to stress the word. The stories taught me more life lessons than I would have known. I was oblivious to the impact her daughter's death had on me. The advice she gives to others comes from her own personal experiences; she lives to help others (especially kids) switch life directions and move them towards a better future. One cannot verify the LIFE someone lived. Other than the schools Ida attended and old photos, there is no other proof that is provided. This interview (along with other interviews) gives me a vicarious look at the events within the last century; I am able to get the small details left out in textbooks or events that are not recorded for

 

 

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ANNOTATED BIBLIOGRAPHY

 

 

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