Felipe Rodriguez

Felipe Rodriguez

San Antonio, Texas

March 2013

Iredi Rodriguez

Palo Alto College

History 1302 - Spring 2013

 

INTRODUCTION

Felipe Jesus Rodriguez Jr. was born on Linares, Nuevo Leon, Mexico, on January 22th, 1948. His father was Felipe Rodriguez and his mother Maria de Jesus Martinez. They had four sons including him and two daughters, but his youngest sister died two days after she was born and his mother passed away when she was giving birth to his sister. His father, brothers, sister and he used to lived in a ranch where everything was scarced. He started to work when he was seven years old, taking care of goats in a farm and taking them to the yard so they could get something to eat. He only attended to elementary school that was called Benito Juarez. He was in third grade when he was fourteen years but at the age of 15 years he moved to the city of Monterrey Nuevo Leon Mexico to look for a better job and a better standards of living, and he got a job in a press. He didn't know much about the job and he was very young, but he wanted to succeed and get money that he worked there for four years, but then he got a job as CDL driver and that's how he met Ermelinda Montes, his wife. They got married on May 12th of 1973, and had her first daughter on April 16th of 1974. They had two more daughters and one son. They named them from the oldest to youngest as Karla Dolores Rodriguez, Brenda Janeth Rodriguez, Maria Ermelinda and Felipe Jesus Rodriguez. After having them, he decided to come to the United States to offer his family a better life. And that was on June 1987 when he first arrived here, but leaving them back in Mexico. Now he, his wife and son live here in San Antonio, Tx. but his daughters live in Monterrey, Nuevo Leon, Mexico, and he just go back to Mexico in days such as Christmas and New Years. The interview took place at his home, 214 Hollenbeck Av. on April, 7th, 2013.

 

TRANSCRIPTION

How was your childhood?, Why did you have to work when you were a child?
I suffered a lot because as my mom wasn't with us anymore I had to work with my dad to bring something home, we were very poor and my father and I were in charge of feeding everyone in my family.

Where did you started to work? How did you get paid?
I started working in a farm, doing daily chores like feeding animals,plowing the field, milking the cows, and bringing the milk, to the kitchen in heavy containers.They used to pay me $1.00 peso at day, like $.10 US cents.

Was it a lot of money for a kid?
No it was too little because I had to feed my family.

Who, What, Where, When

Do you have a childhood memory that you want to share?
I remembered taking my little brother to the farm when I was 7 and he was 5, and because it was too early, I used to take his hand and started walking by the time I noticed he was asleep for the whole time until we got to the farm, he walked but he was asleep but it was because working in the farm was hard and he was too young.

What kind of food do you used to eat?
Whatever we find available. Eggs, corn tortillas, herbs, wild cactus. We didn't eat meat because it was too expensive, so mostly wealthy people could only afford it.

What kind of candies do you like the most?
I didn't eat candies, because the nearest store was like fifteen miles away from where I lived and to get there a person had to walk, and if it was already late you were at risk of get bitten by a snake.

How about toys? Did you have one that was your favorite?
He laughs. Oh no we didn't think about play, because all that we know was work but sometimes when I was taking care of the cattle I used to take off my huarache (sandal) and put some stones on it and play like if it was a car

How were the living conditions?
There was not electricity, not drinkable water. if we wanted to drink water we had to take it out from a well. I also remember about drinking water from the land. I mean I had to wait until the horses stepped in the sand and wait until it rain to get water from there.

How did you meet your wife?And how did you feel about her at the moment?
I meet her in a cinema. I was sitting behind her. She looked beautiful, that I just started touching her shoulder, and calling her beautiful. At the time I was really attracted by her face, because she looked so beautiful in a green dress.

Did she turned around when you started touching her?
(He laughs). Yeah, actually she turned around and got after me. She told me to leave her alone, because she was with two little girls and she didn't want to get in trouble with the father of them, trying to making me believe they were hers. But she looked too young to believe they were her daughters. So after the movie end I waited until she walked home and I followed her without her to noticed me. So once I knew where she lived. I started asking about her and her family. And that was how I knew the little girls were her cousins and that actually she lived with her aunt and uncle.

How did you get together?
Hmmmm, it took me a lot of time for her to say yes, but I liked her since I saw her the first time, so what I did was that every morning I used to wait in front of her door with a flower, and told her I was going to be there every morning until she will accept me as a boyfriend. At first she treated me bad, telling me all kind of stuff but after like three months, she accepted to go out with me, and accepted to be my girlfriend. And two years later we got married.

Did you felt in love before with another girl or she was the only one?
hmmmm, (He laughs). Actually there was one girl before her, but our love was impossible.

What do you mean impossible? Did her parents don't let her have a boyfriend or what happened?
Well, she was my teacher when I was in school. She was 26 while I was fourteen. I flunked third grade and fourth grade just to be in her classroom, I know she liked me too, but she was married.

But why do you say she liked you too?
Because she liked me, she told me. One time I had to stay late because she was going to talk about my grades and how bad I was doing in her class, because I wasn't learning anything, but if you asked me about how she looked every day I still can answer how she looked and the way she used to dress. And that day I told her everything about how I felt about her, and that I had fall in love with her. and....... I kissed her. And.......... she didn't do anything but kiss me too. And after that she just walked away to her house. I didn't know what to do so I just went home too, hoping to kiss her again. The next morning, I thought she was going to treat me different, like her sunshine, but instead she started to get after me all the time, like if I was bothering her. So after a while I just decided to drop out school. When she knew I was going to drop out school, she told me, she was very sorry but that dropping out was the best. Because, she had fall in love with me too. So I decided to move to Monterrey, and I never got to kiss her again but the last thing I heard about her was that she divorced her husband.

What make you think about coming to USA? And when did you came here?
Pursue a better life for my family, seek high standards of living, buy a car, and a house. And offered the best to my children. I got here on 1987.

How did you get your residence?
Hmmmm well, I came right before the president (I can't remember his name) helped a lot of immigrants to stay here as legal so I took the opportunity and I got my papers.


How did you cross the border?
I crossed it just as a resident. When I was working as a CDL driver, in the company I used to work where asking people about to come over to United States and stay for a while, most of the workers didn't want to leave their families, but I wanted to offered my family something better that I accepted to come over and they got me the green card. And after I was officially a resident, I looked for a better job, but now on this side of the border.

So what was your first job here in United States?
Since I was in Mexico, and started driving I knew I always wanted to drive didn't matter the time, for how long, or how far, I just wanted to drive, drive and drive, so when I buy my first car a Chevrolet 1948, I thought about being a Taxi Cab but as I was heading everywhere in my car, I saw a sign where CDL drivers were needed. So I apply for the job and I got it, in less than a week a was driving a trailer. So when I came here was the first kind of job I looked for and started working at Delta Produce.

How you like here?
I like it a lot, I mean I already got used to live here. Although all my family is over there except for my son, Felipe Jr. I like living here, the weather and the people even though I don't speak a lot of English, I understand it but is just hard to try to speak it. I speak most Span-glish you know. (He laughs)

So did you ever come back to Mexico again?
Yes I got my green card, I can go whenever I want to but, you know I already got used to live here I like my job and I have my grandsons here even though most of my family is over there, my 3 daughters and their sons but I don't know I feel stranger being there, most of my life is being spend here now.

Is there anything else you would like to add to this interview?
Yes, thank you for make me remember about my childhood, even though it wasn't the best, I learn a lot from it. And I will teach my grandsons and granddaughters that nothing is impossible. El que quiere puede.

 

ANALYSIS

In paragraph form, answer these questions after completing your interview. Do not include these questions in your analysis.

-What did you learn from doing this oral history project?
-What were the most important points made in this interview?
-What did you learn about your interviewee that you did not know before?
-Did your view on this topic change due to this interview? In what ways? -How did the interviewee express her/his feelings- not only in what was said, but how it was said?
-What did these stories teach you about the topic?
-How did you attempt to verify the stories told to you?
-What are the benefits and drawbacks of learning about the past through the oral history process?
-Overall, is this an effective way about learning about the past? why/why not?

 

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