Tomasa Estrada (nee Mendoza )

We are all trees with different branches but still we're all the same as one root.

Tomasa Mendoza in her communion dress in Texas(1961)

San Antonio, Texas

March 23, 2010

Laura Marie Gonzales

Palo Alto College

History 1302 - Spring 2010

 

INTRODUCTION
TRANSCRIPTION
ANALYSIS
TIMELINE
BIBLIOGRAPHY

 

INTRODUCTION

Tomasa Mendoza was born on September 30, 1951 at
Lockney, Texas; her parents are Jesus and Tomasa Mendoza. She is the only girl in her family besides her mother, and she has six brothers. My grandma said that they did move around a lot but not sure around what time, but they did move to Winder, Corpus Christi, Clinton, Pecos, "Texas" and other cities because of her dad "due to him working". At the age of twelve or thirteen she did labor work out in the fields; working with cotton, strawberries and cherries. My grandma also worked as a bus girl at a restaurant and call services for remodeling homes; she told me she would work to receive income. She did attend elementary and some junior high but she stopped going to school when she was in the 7th grade, so she never did go to high school. At age fourteen she got married to Jose Guadalupe Molina in San Antonio, Texas at the courthouse (1967). I asked her why did she get married and she said, "she was dumb and wasn't thinking" and if she probably didn't get married her life probably would have been better and tried to finish up school. In April 1967 they gave birth to their first child Delma Molina. On July 21, 1969 she gave birth to Rosario Molina in Portland, Oregon. They were living over there at that time because her husband was looking for migration work. Around that year my grandma and her husband filed for a divorce; she told me that they wouldn't get along and were constantly arguing with each other. She later remarried in 1971 at the court house in San Antonio, Texas to Rogelio Estrada. In 1972 they gave birth to Yvonne Estrada and 1977 they gave birth to their second child Rogelio Estrada Jr. What she likes to do is go walking either at the gym or Stetson Field listening to her music on her MP3 player, baking, or being outside doing hard work. I asked her about her thoughts on politics and she said, "I think nobody helps anybody, or it's the same rich just care about them and see's no difference for the poor or middle class". The religion my grandmother follows is Christianity.

 

 

TRANSCRIPTION

Why did your parents move around?
Because of work, working in the fields.

Did you like moving?
It was fun knowing people, getting to know new people

Were you close to your parents & who your mom or dad?
Both of them… yes… well my dad was a truck driver at some time and he was out of the house so I was I could say l was closer to my mom.

How was your childhood?
Childhood? Well I was raised with six brothers I was a real tom girl and instead of playing girl stuff I played boy stuff… (laughs)

Did you get into trouble?
Trouble? In trouble no not really

How many siblings did you have?
6 brothers… Adolfo, Jesse, Leroy, David, Daniel, Kicko

Tomasa, Jesse, Adolfo, Kicko, David, and Leroy, Texas, 1960's

Were your siblings ever over protective with you?
My, the next to me was…Jesse, he would uh wanna know where I was at and why?

Did you have any chores when you were small?
Umm yes help around the house. Well I remember helping my mom making tortillas in the morning. Tortillas for all of us for all day.

Did you complain about doing chores?
ugh I complained about washing dishes, I didn't like washing dishes.

Tomasa, San Antonio Texas, 1964

Did you'll ever take family vacations?
We would go to the coast that would be our vacation, get in the water.

What was school like?
School well it wasn't like it is right now! You wouldn't get in trouble as easy as you get in trouble now and days.

Tomasa(last row on the right last seat), Buena Vista Elementary, 1961

Did you enjoy going to school?
Yes, just seeing my friends everyday. Were you quiet in school? I wasn't quite if they looked for me they'd find me!

At what age did you stop going to school/why?
I'd say about age thirteen I was in the seventh grade, because I got married.

Do you regret not completing school?
Yes, Because of a better position, better job, better pay.

Anything else you regret in your life?
Not get married as young as I did and finishing school.

Did anything exciting happen in your life?
Exciting… exciting was when we would move around…and having to pack and go on the road.

What jobs did you have when you were younger/did you like them?
I..I worked in the fields and I liked working in the fields and I worked as a bus girl and I liked working as a bus girl. In the fields we would pick whatever was in season and it would be either strawberries, greenbeans ,umm potatoes…cherries depending on what was on season. I also did work as a call service "i think that's what it's called" calling people up to see if they needing re-modeling on their homes or set up appointments for contractors.

How much did you get paid?
No, now that I don't know cause my dad was the one In charge of that, he was your boss, he was the one that would now how much I would make and all.

How did you learn how to drive?
I don't know I just did, by myself by thirteen I was driving

Did you have your own car?
No,no it was a family car. I can't remember the year but it was a red pontiac car. I used to just drive around with either my family or friends around the park.

Were you able to go out and date when you were younger?
Go out on dates...yes I was uh huh.

How did your parents feel about you getting married?
Well I'm sure they weren't happy because I was so young.

Did they like him (Jose Molina)?
Well they really didn't know him and I really didn't know him either than at all.

What do you mean you really didn't know him?
Well my cousin had picked me up and taken me with some friends of her's and then she ended up leaving me alone with them at some place. Well I ended up just hanging out with him (Jose) and didn't come home until the morning. I had found out that my mom was crying because she didn't know where I was at and my dad's eyes were blood shot red from looking for me. I had told them were I was so once everyone found out what I was doing and who I was with they assumed I had done something with Jose. So they said if ya'll eloped then you mine as well should get married! But I hadn't slept with him or anything we were just were hanging around. Back in those days in someone found out you had done something like that they just made you get married.

Why didn't you say anything to your parents?
I was dumb and wasn't thinking about that! But my mom never asked me do you want to get married or anything? They just said if that's what you'll want to be doing then get married that,so we did.

Tomasa & Jose Molina, McAllen Texas,1966

Did you know how many kids you wanted when you were younger or thought of ever getting married?
I never thought of how many I wanted. I know I didn't want as much as we were in the family we were seven all together and I know I didn't want that many (Laughs).

Did you like your in-laws from your first marriage?
Yes, especially my mother in law she was very good to me. Yes we were very close, we got along real good.

What you and your mother-in-law do?
Well we would be cooking and talking (pauses) just got along real good.

Why did you get divorced?
Because we just didn't get along and it was always just fighting and fighting and we didn't make it.

Did you have any other jobs when you were married?
Yes, I used to be a cafeteria worker at McCollum High School. I would usually be the one in charge of making the bread.

How did you meet Grandpa Estrada?
I meant him as a bus girl in the restaurant.

Tomasa & Rogelio Estrada, San Antonio Texas, At a night club, 1970

How would your kids treat you?
My kids…how did they treat me? They knew who was the head of house hold so, they woldnt talk back and all that maybe they did talk the way they werent supposed to when I wasn't around they wouldn't sass at me or anything.

Did they treat each other differently because they didn't have the same dad?
NO, they treated each other like if they weren't step sisters or brother. They all got along with each other.

Tomasa, Rogelio, Rosie, Delma, Yvonne & Jr. San Antonio Texas 1977

Do you have a favorite child?
I don't favor any of them. I love them all and treat them all the same. I think its ugly when people say that.

How did you feel about your daughter(Delma) gettin pregnant at a young age?
I wasn't happy about it because she was still in high school but I did give her the choice of either living with the father or staying at home with us. She decided to stay at home and I told her that she had to obey our rules still!

Can you tell me about that house ya used to live at on Villaret?
It was a small house and only had one bedroom, kitchen, one bathroom and living room. We used to pay $58 dollars for rent. My husband was working at CPS "City Public Service" and he wasn't making more than two dollars an hour.

Do you have any favorite foods to eat?
My favorite, my favorite… este if I go out to eat I prefer shrimp "seafood" cause they way I see it that tortillas beans and rice I can make that all at home

Is there anything you like to collect/why?
I love hummingbirds and I think because they're pretty.

What do you like to do on your spare time?
Just relax… watch novellas or read a book go out where I haven't been, I like to work in the yard a lot, pull weeds around my flower beds and plant, plants.

How do you think our generation will be in the future?
Hard. Especially if you're not educated were you can get paid well it's gonna be hard… very hard

Delma, Jr, Rosie,Tomasa, Rogelio, and Yvonne, Christmas, San Antonio,Tx 2008

Is there anything you would like to accomplish in your life?
Accomplish. Well I just when I'm not around I'd like my kids to get along with each other. I've always told them that, to help each other, and umm to get along… see each other and I hope that when I'm not around they keep doing that.

Overall how satisfied are you with your life?
Good, good. Everythings ok

Tomasa, San Antonio,Tx, 2010

Where do you see yourself in the years to come?
Umm where I'm at right now I guess! (laughs)

Is there anything else you would like to add to this interview?
I'd like… too with my grandkids like with my mom she has a lot of grandkids' and a lot of sons. And not all of them go to see her to visit her to see what she needs. What she doesn't need, and the grandkids' like they don't talk Spanish and that's all she talks they don't visit she hardly sees them and I like umm for my grandkids to see me especially as I get older and for them to get to know me.

 

 

Laura Marie Gonzales interviews her grandmother Tomasa Estrada in San Antonio, Texas in 2010 Laura Marie Gonzales and Tomasa Estrada in San Antonio, Texas- New Year's Eve 2010

ANALYSIS

I learned about the life that my grandmother had when she was going growing up, always working in the fields and moving to so many cities and a few states because her father was looking for immigration work. In general my grandmother just wants her family to stay close together and be by each others side. I learned about why she ended up dropping out of school. "We are all trees with different branches but still we're all the same as one root". My grandma wasn't really up for the interview at first and for me it was kind of hard for her to open up. She said, "why do you have to ask me so many questions"! I'm glad that she answered the questions without any hesitation, but she just spoke real calm and straight to the point! I just got to know about her childhood and life, I really never talked to her about it. Overall I loved doing this interview this questions were personally but I'm glad she was able to tell me about her lifestyle! From doing this presentation I might end up asking my grandpa about his life and how he grew up.

 

 

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